I once wrote about the act of kindness on my personal page. I described it somehow that If someone did something good to you, you would eventually do (almost) the same, and it goes beyond you could imagine. And it's goes circle
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For example someone - you might not know the person - help you to stand up when you accidentally fall down. You would be glad, happy, relieve that someone was there, even actually without that someone you could still stand up yourself . Next time, when you see someone else need for a help or in trouble, you might remember the incident before, and with or without realising it you already give your hand to that person.
I personally believe that when people do this kind of act, it is because the happiness they feel after doing so. You got nothing, when the person just thank you, or smile at you, or even none of them, you would still help them don't you ?? Because the feeling you got in return.
And Smile ?? It's just do the same
There are times when you feel so bad about something , or just feeling down for whatever the reason is. At that moment, someone approach you with bright smile, start small -sweet/nice conversation, won't you feel better ? Even though you don't talk to her / him about your problem
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It happened to me today. I was on my way for lunch. With the bad weather, loads of works, I just don't feel good enough. I then met someone from work which I am not even close with. She just waved at me, and smile happily, and without realising it we're already talking,she even knows that I have health problems. Like, I don't think I’ve told her or people around her. Well , don't think of her as stalker or something *lol.
Somehow I found it amusing, that small gesture from here can lead a nice conversation, and it made my day even way better than I expected.
When you walk down the stairs, you walk pass someone you barely knew or not, you eventually would smile at that person, or just say hello, or another small gesture instead of those hello things. Don't you ?
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It might be just a small, almost non-valuable gesture, but we don't know that small thing might give positive impact on someone else’s live.
You smile at an old lady, you smile and say hello to little kid walking with his mother, you say Hi to another girl you already met couple of time before, smile to a person whose sit next to him is empty and you ask if you could sit there, little smile and thank you for cashier in supermarket.
After long day, after lots of trouble, when you think you are alone in this world, when you are too depressed, little smile from someone does really help.
But why wait someone to smile at you ? Why don't you start this small act of kindness yourself ? Let's make a better world, a more-kind of world.
Cheers,
Fyi , I wrote it based on my personal experience tho 😀😁
@rahmanovic