Before I cut my hair I used to live in self doubt, I felt that if I didn't do what everyone was doing I would be unhappy. But I realize it now, we are different for a reason, we are like a garden if all the flowers are the same it looks so ordinary but when we all express our differences it creates magic.
The main reason I cut my hair was to put on a new look, but that single act changed my view on life. In a world where people are assessed by their appearance, if you don't meet other people's standard of appearance, it makes you feel deficient.
It shouldn't be like that, we as individuals should be able to express our true self, our Sense of style is what makes us unique, we need to own it. Alot of people talked down on my new look but guess what?
It honestly for the first time didn't bother me, it only exposed me to numerous standards people expect from me.
People are different and thus have have different perceptions on things, experiences and other people. I am my own person with my own sense of style, my own opinions why should I accept others and not myself?
After I cut my hair it felt like a personality makeover, I was a whole new person I became more aware of the person I am and how different I'm supposed to be. I am happy and positive now, although I still listen to others and learn from them I do not disregard my own opinion on any matter I give every thought equal attention.
I am wrapped in the sweetness of self love and everyday it is easier to love and accept others for who they truly are.
I hope that you accept your self, say what think and own it. Don't be afraid to express your true self, the world needs your kind of magic.
Thank you so much for reading my post, I hope this helps you ❤️.
All pictures used in this post are entirely mine.