The first thing to do to know yourself is to find out how our nature and condition, of course, followed by self-disclosure. To know yourself can be done various ways, for example by knowing the advantages with our lack of self. Another way to get to know yourself is by knowing what your self desires or how your successes are. By knowing this, then we can make a basis for knowing ourselves. There are many other ways to know yourself, because each individual has a different and unique way of getting to know himself.
After knowing ourselves, then we must be confident with ourselves. This is so that no one can shake their confidence. Confidence is needed in the process of self-knowledge to the point of success. To be a confident individual, we must know what our strengths and weaknesses are. A very simple thing, but it is the most important thing. Before there is a benchmark, we can not judge anything. How can we say that our self has changed for the better or more successful if we ourselves do not know the initial benchmarks.