Soooooo... I had a discussion the other night about the role of a man. While watching television (a documentary) I realized that when a child is in need of protection, love or support the child goes to the mother.
This started a lengthy conversation about the male role in today world.
What do you think??
First let me say that I truly respect men and the importance of their being, however; you are creating your own demise.. Period Point Blank!
Why you ask??
(Not at all saying that women don't but I'm not talking about us right now O but I will soon)
Top ten examples of why your presence is slowing drifting away...
YOU'RE NOT THERE!
Men are quick to bail.. Facts
Disrespectful
Why do you think it's okay to disrespect the mother of your child..? You are actually losing the respect of your children
YOU'RE NOT THERE!
Show up and show out for your kids events, school activities and not just when Jr. makes the varsity team
Disillusioned
EVERYTHING IS NOT OKAY!
Just because the house is clean, good food on the table, followed up with some good... You know doesn't equal to everything being okay.
YOU'RE NOT THERE!
When little Timmy has a problem and turn to his right who does he see.. Yep you got it his mother! Put your kids first! Have their back and be supportive. Just because the mother is a mama bear don't mean that you can't be a daddy bear!
Crybaby
Now it may not be literally crying but why do men complain about "babysitting" their children or hell just about anything. First off HOW DO YOU BABY SIT YOUR OWN CHILDREN? And then expect a cheerleader to pop out every time they do something that they are SUPPOSE to do!
I know you think I'm being funny but seriously YOU ARE NOT THERE! At night out hanging out who is left to protect the safe haven? MAMA IS THE PROTECTOR.
Always complaining about the woman trying to wear the pants. Well if you leave them out she WILL put them on under her dress! IT'S LIKE YOUR FAVORITE EXCUSE:
Man: Who fixed the sink? (Dumb question)
Woman:I did last week after I ask you to
Man: I was getting to it but YOU ALWAYS TRYING TO PUT ON THE PANTS!
YOU'RE NOT THERE!
Men always try to discipline but it is taken as bullying because you have not put enough marbles in the the good bucket to for discipline to be taken as constructive.
I want you to answer that yourself! Why do you feel like you no longer matter in the home? YOU'RE NOT There is already taken.
