In-laws are a vital part of your family when you get married.
There's a saying it's better getting married from a good family than marrying a good man.
You might get married to a good man or woman but, from a bad family.
You might marry a bad man or woman from a good family.
There is a lot of difference when you marry from a kind of family background.
There are families that love to gossip, they will say what they know and don't know about you to anyone that care to listen to them.
In such a situation, it all depends on how you were presented by your spouse to them.
Families, that don't have time for gossip, will tell you to sort yourself out with your spouse,never intruding into your family matter such family are the one that take you like their child.
Such in-laws are hard to find ,when you have such they must be respected to the maximum.
Controlling in-laws, they want to dictate what happens in your house
They will say if you both are compatible or not, they like to invade into your privacy.Such type of family gossip too.
No nonsense in-laws:These type of families don't take irresponsible attitude.They will scold you both and whenever you both remember their scolding you will correct yourselves.
Respect is very important,when it comes to your in-laws.
Like I wrote in my previous post, don't start what you can't finish with
Your in-laws. Try to be at peace with them, irrespective of how they treat you.
From my experience, when I was in the same state with them, you could not know or differentiate if I was their sibling or not younger sister except we tell you.
We were very close and respected each other. Why?. Because, I don't do eye service, I was myself with them.
I respected them to the highest point; i didn't try to be better than or compete with my sister in laws.
They know me as a woman of peace, love and respect.
A down to earth woman that doesn't pretend.
Wives and husband check yourselves. Even if you know you are right, continue to love them the same way you will love your own siblings.
When you're good to them, they will fight for you and defend you, irrespective of your spouse's character.
Respect your in-laws and you will enjoy your marriage.
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