Wow,this is wonderful for you and you have really done well with this article,juts like you said this is a fiction,which mean they are not what really happened to you,but you have spoken the mind or the situation of do many people inside and outside of this platform.

It is very essential that parents too see this and let me say most especially father's,even mother's too have a role to play,maybe through standing up for their children at some point to help them overcome situations like this.

Their is always a saying which I don't really agreed with

When one of the parent is disciplining the child,the other one should support

Yes many this may be true ,but the level at which it as affected lot of children is in what you have you have said here.

This understanding that the father provide for the house should be erased,fine it is true,but that is not only what the father should do , cause they have this mindset that once they give what the house needs to those in the house,they have done their patt,which is totally Wrong

The level of abuse that so many children grew up with as leads them into lot of things that they should not have ever been ,if their emotions were properly read and noticed.

Just like you said

When a child feels out of place in his father's house, there is a tendency for that child to feel inadequate or unaccepted.

Definitely what to you have to gain again or what sort of hope to do you have again ,when you are hearing statement or words that makes you feel unwanted in your own father house and they is why lot of children today as become something else in the society.

It is very important that our parents should study their children well enough and even father's show know that fathering goes beyond providing for the house in terms of shelter