Hey everyone!
Growing up, I've had this upbringing that a lady has to be meek and humble. Same goes to the man but a bigger version with taking responsibilities on things that are meant to be handled right.
The man having to show for himself and make family believe that he is fit to run his life and start something meaningful with his years on earth without being a burden to the family and the society in general.
The woman on the other hand, has to be a gentle, supportive and understanding individual in other to take care and handle herself wherever she finds herself.
Let me clear this out. I want to say a few things about commitment.
Please do take your time and go through this and tell me what you think
This man, he's from a noble home. He grew up from a loving and struggling household.
Yeah,things weren't as his parents might have planned back in the days when they were young and bubbling.
By the way,Life has been generous to them and of course he wouldn't give up on the fact that he was born broke... All he could do is live on and try finding out how he can make his own life better than his parents.
So, this guy got done with school... I mean he got done with everything academically...
Now you might be asking. How did he get done with school when he's family is broke. Well he had a few work here and there. Plus other loans that he had taken which he did pay back after meeting this lady...
So years later, he'd met this lady... From one of his friends. This lady is pretty and down to earth... You get what I mean?
Having been on a few encounters of meeting her in different occasions, this young man was head over heels for her. And before you know what's happening, they were already dating
PS: he's still in debt
But hey !? Don't you judge! They were in love as they call it.
This lady had stood by him, understood and supported in every way she can.they were managing but damn it man! They didn't know that a little creature was already planning her next move in the womb...
Now this lady had told this guy that she was pregnant and first, she was ghosted for few days and after long thought, this man had decided to take up responsibility even while in debt. Which am glad he did....
The lady gave birth after a few months and after a while she packed in with the guy to his house...his family house cause he owes no house
The lady had a good paying job. So she'd helped him with paying off loans and gradually they started building a house of their own... Of which, she did 80% invest in building of the house.
Things were better than before and boom!
This man decided that he ain't interested in the lady again... And he sent her packing.
They had to call a family meeting and they family of course would support their son...
When she cried begged and complained, all she got was:
Carry the house you built and leave if you can...
Which we all know that it ain't possible...unless she'll scrape down the house...
What possibly could she have done to deserve that... whatever it is,he commited most of his life with his academic, making ends meet, taking responsibility of a father and have decided not to keep that commitment going for some reason....
Worst case- he'd sent both mother and his child packing
I'd asked
Why wait till after 10 years to to tell her that you'd never planned on settling with her ?
Why does he have to send his child out too?
Why did you let her shut down a part of her life to carry another life for months for you...
Why ?
Commitment !
It's work... I know but damn it
Just commit...
It ain't what you want but you mistakenly fell in for it... So commit to it
Let's be careful out there... Everyone has a life. Don't go around spoiling other peoples life just because you haven't figured out yours.
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