Welcome to my blog ladies and gentlemen and yeah thank you for stopping by,in this prompt I will be writing about what changed me even without me knowing.
Marriage is my biggest change,a lot about me changed after marriage,in ways I was not expecting,I was not asked to change or was under any pressure, the change happened naturally.
It started with my spending life,I noticed I don't spend much like I used to when I was single, when I was single I never bother to save,I work to spend,I buy what I want and eat what I want the only thing that matters was bills was sorted.
But after marriage I wanted to save. I became very calculating that my husband is always complaining, reminding me that I was not like this, oh, and honestly I don't even know why I calculate so much now,I just want to save. I always want to have money on me.
Secondly,I don't talk about my feelings with my husband when we were in a relationship,I just let everything slide. Whenever we have any issues I just work away from it or don't talk about it no matter how much I am hurt I let it be.
But my husband was different,he made sure we settle any issues we are having even though I keep saying I don't want to talk about it he made sure we talked about it, going to bed angry was not an option for us.
After marriage the case was different,whenever we are having issues we will talk about it here and now, nobody is going anywhere until we are done talking especially when I am hurt,I made sure he doesn't get any rest until the air is clear.
Lastly my outfit automatically changed,then I dress to please myself,I don't care what anybody thinks as long as I am comfortable I honestly don't care,if am looking good or unkempt was nobody's business,I make my hair or not was nobody's problem,I honestly don't care then, I can wear anything anytime as long as am comfortable that all that matters to me.
Then came marriage,that part of me changed too. Now how I look while going out matters a lot.I had to change the whole of my wardrobe after marriage nobody asked me to. I just felt it was not right to wear some type of clothes as a married woman.
The hair that is always unkempt is no longer unkempt.I hardly checked my mirror when I was single but now I do,then I eat to survive but now I eat to stay healthy and look healthy.
We all have that phase in life that changed us, sometimes we know we have to change even if the change is not for us, while sometimes the change just happened even without us knowing, what matters is how we react to the change and allow it affect us.
