Descending into the world is just like a rolling dice and you never know the outcome until the dice finally settles. This is the same way we came into the world not knowing where we are heading to, where we would see ourselves and not even knowing who we were before arriving here.
Anna -pexels
Childhood is the first and initial stage of every child, some children were lucky to be born into rich homes while some kids unfortunately born to struggle with their poor parents and sadly the unlucky one's get abandoned in the streets as orphans and not knowing who they are nor where they belong. This is a serious shuffle to the life of such children and today i see alot of lucky home and some misfortuned homes as well that i have learnt great lessons from.
Indeed the kinds of home a child is born into has great influence over a child but no matter the home you find yourself to raise your child as a parent, you should always make sure to train up your child in a way that he or she will grow as the bible makes us to understand that when they get older they will not depart from it this is in other words called home training.
I have learnt alot about parenting even tho i'm yet to become one because i have lived with alot of people my whole life as a child adapting to different people's behaviours and learning so many lessons at the same time even tho this affected my childhood and wear me off some smiles on the face, it didn't stop me from becoming who i built myself to become today.
Firstly i want to point out one most important thing you shouldn't allow to happen to you as a parent because of consequences it will render to your child and this is being a single parent.
It is always unfortunate that both father and mother do not unite due to certain challenges or problems they may face but believe me if you grew up with your mum and dad under the same roof with unity then you are amongst one of the least lucky kid's we have in the world today and your childhood experience was certainly complete compared to a child who grew up knowing just a mum and no one he ever called dad, or having a dad but never knew about mum.
As a father, there is a particular kind of love your child feels on your behalf and as a mother the love of a mother towards her child there is nothing in the world that could be compared to it. This challenge can cause a low self esteem amongst peer groups in some children and it is heartbreaking sometimes when a single patented child see's a completely united family together. At this point you could feel the shambles on this child starring.
No matter what happens i vow to give my kids a united parenthood where they come in to our lives and see their parents united together with great support and love for each other, they shouldn't be left out of the togetherness and family love of both a mother and a father as i know this is one of the biggest love they will ever experience as a child and this will take them a long way in their lives.
Ketut -pexels
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