Love is one of the most profound emotions known to human beings. There are many kinds of love, but most people seek its expression in a romantic relationship with a compatible partner. For some, romantic relationships are the most meaningful element of life, providing a source of deep fulfillment. The ability to have a healthy, loving relationship is not innate. A great deal of evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship begins in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver like parents and guardians who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Those relationships are not destiny, but they appear to establish patterns of relating to others. Failed relationships happen for many reasons, and the failure of a relationship is often a source of great psychological anguish. Most of us have to work consciously to master the skills necessary to make them flourish.
All of your relationships are inside of you. Ultimately, each relationship you have with another person reflects your relationship with yourself. How well ( or poorly ) you get along with yourself will be directly mirrored by how you get along with others inside of you and outside of you.
The cliche is that life is what you make of it but in a greater sense, it is what you do with it. Much too often it is your emotional opinion about what is going on that is the problem rather than what is actually happening. Life is designed as a learning experience, not a penalty situation. Rather than being limiting and painful, relationships can be enriching and joyous.
Many people approach today's relationship based on yesterday's lack, precipitating tomorrow's pain. Almost everyone has a history of some form of deprivation, qualifying himself or herself as a leading candidate for the soap opera called life, and many people constantly relate through the drama of their traumas. Influenced by traditional conditioning, most people will not approach relationships based on their own immediate experience. As a result, they may miss out on the thrill of life: abundance, loving, and joy, which are always present for those awake and aware enough to claim them.
You and me are the decision makers when it comes to relationship, we need to change our perspective about the concept and relate more with people which include Family members, friends both in business and other works of life.
Thank you and always 
