See life, even your partner didn´t love you then because if he did, he would have carried you along right from when Mona started discussing her issues with him. You see, one thing that easily breaks a relationship is having a third party in your problems when you could solve them together. At least you tried to forgive them both while moving on with your life. Holding onto grudges only makes you sad anytime you think about them, but choosing peace and you are all that matters.