Surrogacy is not a good idea from my own point of view, and I will never agree to it even in my next life because bringing a child into the world through surrogacy doesn’t give the parents full access to the child, simply because the person that helps them to carry it might come back to claim the child.
Nine months of stress is not something a woman can overlook and walk away from just like that, but some women think it’s nothing, and that is why they agree to become surrogates for another person. But when they get to the journey of nine months, some of them will realize that they can’t cope with the agreement anymore because the baby is part of them, and the nine months stress is not small at all.
Though people thought they had paid the person helping them to carry the baby, some people always forget, or let me say they don’t know when a lady is pregnant; they are actually bringing part of them into the world, and women get bonded with the baby in their womb as they grow.
For this reason, some surrogate mothers always come back to claim the baby, which might not be healthy for the baby and the family who thought they had a child already.
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How can someone be paid off for the nine months of stress, and the person will never come back for the baby? I wonder how people agree to such things all in the name of money, but then for some reason some people believe it is ok, but to me it is not, and it will never be because that child will never have a special place in my heart, and the bond between mother and child will not be strong if I should try such a called surrogate.
Surrogacy will never be an option for me, and more so, the traditional way of childbearing can never be abandoned simply because it is the only way and a good one at that for a woman to have a child.
The surrogate mothers will definitely have to go through the traditional way to get the baby out; if not, they would have to go through surgery, which I don’t think anyone would want to do for someone else to have a child.
Well, the technology has taken over everything now, which means a man can donate his sperm and a woman can donate her egg, and then the baby will have to stay in a machine just like the way it would stay in a woman for nine months. But it is a no-go area for me because if the traditional way is being abandoned, then it means it is not everyone in the world that would have a child simply because the money to get it done in a technological way is not small at all, and it is not everyone that can afford it.
So the traditional way of giving birth is the best way for me, and it will always be my choice to even if I have enough money for the surrogate, I will never consider it.