Yes, nobody told us this is how life would be but the foundation given to us through our parents would determine how our future will be. Though If it is wrong foundation and we have mature to choose between wrong and right then is now left to us to choose. And if it's good foundation, will still need to choose the kind of life we want. Is just that there would be little stress to achieve our goal when we were been given good foundation.
My brother we keep pushing ni ooo by working harder then we leave the rest for God.

How are your family bro.