I don't know, I respect woman, I've never been violent towards them yet sometimes unpleasant. It feels like it is upside down.
Do you know this song about : Civilization - Justice

Those are free buffalo/bison and the world turn upside-down... While everything fall apart.

Edit: The thing is that she won't marry an idiot later on, I know her, however since then, anyone smart will run away from her, who's willing to destroy a family for one peanuts and a half of contrariety. I may have saved millions of USD by not going forward when she wanted.