I'm trying to soak it in and understand. Because I understand this in two ways. The topic and apparently a man. I think that when a man talks about something, if it doesn't add value or help with by giving motivation, then its bragging. Who cares what he's has, does well, how beautiful he thinks his body is, or whatever the issue. A confident person uses what they say to help other people in positive ways achieve their goals. If for anything more than its just showing off.. who cares if you have ten cars if you would ever give one away to help a friend. Who cares if you got all these lovers, if you can never experienve that special one love. People that brag are attention seeking. Confidence is uplifting and inspiring. Its ok to be proud, to show achievements and tell people they can reach those same dreams but If all they are saying is, "I, this or I that", it isnt about anything other than themselves. Selfish motives, however frivolous or small, show a bigger problem in the grander scheme of things. Confidence is knowing you dont have to say a bunch if words. You're presence and who you are says everything a person needs to know.