Hello ladies!
hope we all doing good today?
I welcome everyone back to my blog once again.
Today I want to share a short story about my female friendship experience is school.
HOW IT STARTED AND HOW IT ENDED
My first year in school I met a friend, she was my seatmate and also we could do assignments together.
At first I never wanted to keep a friend all my intention was to focus on my studies and my business.
but since we were always sitting and doing assignment together I felt accepting to be her friend will be added advantage to me because I'm sometimes busy with business and not able to attend lectures I believe she could always fill my space in my absence.
She was never a good friend to me she dispointed and made me loose interest in keeping friends all through my stay in school.
I get to know her true Color when our first semester result was pasted she became jealous because she had to resit for a paper while all my papers was successful.
she was never happy for me🤷
Resuming for second semester, the semester was really a threat to my life😭
lectures began two weeks after I was not able to attend classes i was seariously down at home with sickness.
My called on Phone and to know why I have not been attending lectures I told her I was sick 😷 that she should always help me out writing my names in attendance and also assignments of which she agreed to.
she never bother to come check up on me at home not even once .
All through the semester that I was seariously down with sickness I resumed lectures during revision just two weeks to examinations.
I sent her money to buy textsbooks she but only her's and didn't buy mine I never get to know untill I resumed lectures and requested for my textbooks,she was telling different stories that she forgot because of other things that she was doing.
I felt so bittered about her act then I decided to go collect the money from her and go buy the textbooks 📚 my self after which I have to take the textbooks one after the other to my lecturers in order to get my score.
when I visited the second office my lecturer looked at me and she asked if I summited her assignment I said yes hoping that my friend submitted for me.
my lecturer then asked me to wait so I can return the assignments sheet to the students, Getting to the class immediately my friend saw me carry the assignments script she rushed down to me trying to collect them from me but I insisted on distributing them to the students my self, after distributing all scrpit my scrpit was no where to me found that was how to i get to know that she didn't write the assignment for me, I confronted her and asked her what happened to my scrpit she was telling stories again.
I quickly look for someone to collect all the assignments questions from,I did all and started submitting them to each lecturer one after the other some collected why some were too strict and refuse collecting.
while all this was going on other students were busy preparing for the forth coming exams while myself was battling to meet up with assignments and summition of the semester payment documents.
When exams finally started I tried going close to get in other to join her read her notes since I was not able to update my notes before the examinations started but she wasn't okay with me visiting her, sometimes I could visit her immediately she sees me coming she will lock the door and message me on phone that she is not at home.
I tried getting notebooks from other students maybe to take pictures with my phone but some i couldn't see their writings properly some their note is as confusing as what I could think of,all this was becoming too much and giving me stress I took a dicision that instead all this stress I could go to each lecturer collect the course outline (All the topics they lectured for the semester) and use it to read since I have purchased all the textbooks.
Not long after examinations started my friend that we usually sit together during examinations she made another friend and never wanted to see me around her all is because she thinks I don't know what to write since I didn't attend lectures.
To the glory of God 🙌 we finished the examinations and our results was pasted again I cleared all my papers and she had two papers to resit for 😀
she saw me and was speechless she Started begging me to forgive her that she was only jealous because of my excellent result even her new Friend confessed that she did not write my name in attendance at all niether did she do any of the assignments for me, I felt so bittered but I forgive her and said to her that we can never be friends again she should go her way while I go my way.
If there is anything I pray to God for is nothing more other than knowing the mind of people and their intentions towards me at first sight.
I prefer to stay on my own because is only someone that knows about you that can envy sometimes they fail to understand that Grace differs.
If not God that helped me I couldn't have succeeded that semester all because I put my Hope on a friend that I never knew was an enemy.
That experience was the reason I chose not to keep friends again
Thank you for coming this far I appreciate your time spent reading through my story🥰
