You have much more energy than I. I refuse to be drawn into verbal jousts that demand I repeat myself, as they most often do. I prefer to let those viewing (if there is no meeting of the minds) the disagreement/exchange make up there own minds if possible, and shake the dust of the person disagreeing from my energy as the bible mentions.
So many people are invested in the battle itself, not the ideas presented. They view those ideas as weapons/battlegrounds. I have no time for that, however I do appreciate when someone can enlighten me on my ignorance. I enjoy possessing truth when it's possible, even if it's contrary to my wishes.
But then, to qualify all of this, if I had the means I would live away from most people and be as self sufficient as possible to minimize being around others. The idea of being in a peaceful setting away from drama is alluring.
RE: Destroying credibility is a painful process - for everyone ...A meandering...