I agree, however some people deserve to be called out and have justly earned what can come across as insult. It seems to me that part of the problem we have in society now is no matter the degradation or amount of parasitic behavior going on around us, we are expected to tolerate and embrace it.

One of the assets of the community is its ability to correct behavior damaging to its members.

It's all about respect. Respect yourself and it'll be fairly easy to respect others.

Respect is earned (as is disdain).