His fault (in my estimation) is knowing I am into neither, and vehemently opposed to one of them, and being so self absorbed that he insists that we will continue to talk about it. As I have aged, I have lost my patience for those who are that self absorbed.

had to unfriend because of the stupid shit they kept posting. My oldest friend just shared a video about table napkins, even though she has no family, doesn't throw parties and never has guests for dinner

Reminds me of those (like my ex) who always posted memes attributed to the likes of Gandhi or one of the Buddhas about peace, yet was one of the angriest self centered people one could know in real life once one was close enough to have the mask slip away a little.

Don't miss any of it. Sometimes it is a blessing not to have the intent of family and others thrust in ones face 24/7 :)