First time I've become aware of this community. Wonderful idea. I'll definitely be back.
Relax. Depends on who says it and the context. If I'm in the midst of a disagreement, can be interpreted as a dismissal of my position. If it's from a friend, someone who cares about me, it can be a wake-up call.
In your case, it obviously was intended and received positively. Kudos to you for being able to see that and to respond well.
RE: Relax