Wow, I really enjoyed reading this blog post ! :) This is so true & such an important topic to address, too...

There is definitely a fine line between encouragement & enabling. I think our society has become so conditioned to be politically correct & treat everyone like even steven. It's sad because when everyone is awarded the "same" praise or medal, no one truly knows how good they actually are or where they might need work...

For me, it's all about the approach. I would rather someone would be honest while encouraging. If I am not doing well in something & it's painfully obvious, let me know in a respectful manner. One can say encouraging words like "That is great you tried this..." (for example) and then go into where it might not be the best fit for them. Be honest but be kind. We can learn to know that balance over time & it's much better be truthful with someone instead of enabling them to live a lie...

Great discussion here. Keep up the awesome work! :)