Hello everyone,
People often say that love is both beautiful and blind at first, those words sounded like just another saying but when I look back at my own life I can see the truth in them love gave me some of the most beautiful memories, but it also left me with lessons I never thought I don't have to learn yes, I have been in love I was married legally, and for a while I believed I had found my forever I gave my heart fully and from that love I was blessed with three beautiful children those early days of marriage were filled with so much hope waking up to the thought of building a family together, sharing dreams, and caring for each other it all felt like a gift love made me smile more and it gave me strength I did not even know I had that was the beautiful side of it.
But then came the blind side I didn’t see it coming and I was not prepared for it the same person I loved and built a life with chose to leave and suddenly I was alone with three kids to raise that moment was painful in a way I can hardly describe I asked myself many questions did I miss the warning signs? Was I too blind to see? Maybe I was, because when you are in love you sometimes ignore the things that don’t feel right thinking love will fix everything It was not easy to face that heartbreak there were days when I felt broken, when the weight of responsibility was too heavy and when I thought I could not move forward but I looked at my children and realized they were my reason to keep going even though their father left I knew I could not let them feel abandoned or unloved they became my strength.
That is when I truly understood something love is not only about being with someone; it is also about the love you carry inside you the love that helps you rise again after pain today, I still believe love is beautiful because without it, I would not have the gift of my childrenn but I also know love can be blind, because it can make you hold on even when things are falling apart.
If I could share advice with anyone about falling in love I would say this open your heart, but never lose yourself in the process love should not destroy you It should build you up, even in its challenges and if one day it does not last, don’t see it as the end of your life learn from it pick yourself up and keep going.
My story may not have ended the way I once imagined but it taught me strength patience, and courage love can be both a blessing and a lesson but either way it shapes you into who you are meant to become.
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