Hahaha this is a great comment and I think you are right about why men tend to focus more on their upper body and women on their lower body :D But I actually wear shorts very often, especially in summer but sometimes also in spring and in autumn when it´s warm enough. Oh and when we live in the tropics or subtropics, I wear shorts all year round, I don´t like pants anyway :D
Well, I put on a lot of weight in the last couple of years. Both muscles and fat, of course :D I´m currently at some 90 kg for my not so tall height of 177 cm. That´s not comfortable for jogging anymore. But as long as there is more muscles than fat, I´m ok with that :) I was super skinny when I was younger so I enjoy being big and strong now :) Glad to hear that you managed to put on some weight too, superheroes need muscles to be able to save the world! :D
RE: Work out update: I finally got my own home gym