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In care of your health, being financially responsible, having ambitious goals that make you grow into a confident person is actually a prerequisite of long lasting relationship and friendship won't get destroyed when either side becomes too mentally unstable and insecure or when they no longer take the possibility to forget.
They are in life and feel entitled to a bailout
or when they have too much free time and start engaging in political drama and these resorts, they spoil their life and take it to a worse ever moment for themselves.