No idea who you think is in "my group". People are individuals, and although I'm being called a dictator I don't have any power over them (except from being able to stop downvotes) :D
When there's no downvote by curangel, curangel didn't downvote. It's as simple as that.

The chart of your wife doesn't look great, I have to disagree with that. It's nearly 80% circle voting, even worse than yours when the downvotes for you started.