Interestingly, two such different countries have a similar history and present... I remember the talk we had with @jesuslnrs when he was in Madrid, and how we realized the trajectory of both countries is in sync... Unfortunately, for bad things... :(
But, as you said, we have to fight for our family first... My son's future was the priority when we decided to move to Spain... If I "lost" my best years fighting windmills, he shouldn't do it too...