As the years go by, the routine, the problems of the day to day, makes us forget that we are beings full of emotions and that although we speak simply or show coldness inside of us there is a soul that claims to be taken care of, pampered, and full of a lot of love in addition we like that our couples are detailed is not the value but the attention, that makes us feel like queens.

The day-to-day routine. Your relationship is absolutely predictable. There are no surprises. Days, weeks and months are identical. You know exactly what is going to happen every day, what they are going to do together, you are even able to predict the small arguments that may arise and when. When love begins to be monotonous the feeling is like being trapped in a locked room with a lock.

When you're alone, no one comes near you, but as soon as you have a partner, better opportunities appear everywhere. Every time you look around, no matter where, you always see better opportunities than the person next to you. You like your partner, a lot, but somewhere deep in your heart you expect more or feel you deserve better.

Communication problems: Are you tired of trying to explain things to your partner because you find it difficult to get into the details of each event? This is exactly the beginning of the loss of communication in a relationship. Being bored of telling them everything or feeling that small details are not important and are not worth sharing with each other. It's really the little things that count.

Something about your partner bothers you. Do you find any details in your partner that you find annoying or unpleasant? Maybe it's lazy or clumsy? Try to tell them the best way but don't keep it to yourself. Even the smallest details tend to get bigger and become unbearable over time.

You feel like you've lost your life. You don't have time for yourself outside of the relationship. You've given up your friends and hobbies by spending more time with your partner, and now you feel like you've given up too much for something that hasn't turned out to be as wonderful as you expected. Avoid this point and learn to balance your life between your partner and your previous life, because surely has had wonderful things that are worth keeping.

As a woman with some experience as a couple, I dare to recommend that if we have fallen into a routine that grows every day like an elephant, and that far away the separation alarm is set, even so we do not want to go through a painful separation, although there are cases that are a necessary evil. We must look in the mirror, dress as if it were a very special day, and why not a very romantic dinner.

If you have someone to leave the children with, you can choose a nice place, where there is romantic music, dim light, and the most important thing to disconnect from the day to day problems, of course not to talk about unpleasant things, but to start a trivial conversation, and remember together when they met and talk about the anecdotes that are always kept in our mind, they will find themselves laughing and little by little they will find again the love they think they have lost.