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When you have an unfaithful partner the best way to deal with such partner are
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1) Accept the fact that what happened, you might have some kind of feelings that come with such experience but you have to deal with it. The feelings is natural and they don't just go away but with time the feelings will go especially when you are willing and ready to forgive such partner.
2) Do not go for revenge: having such experience with someone you trust can push you to seek for revenge but that is not the right thing to do because two wrongs don't make a right, if you try to seek for revenge you may be happy temporarily when you seek for revenge but such action will still work against you by keeping you in the state of anger rather than trying to heal and move on.
3) If possible try to keep third party out of the whole issue because nobody might understand your spouse the way you do and getting opinions about how to run your relationship from different people can at the end try to ruin the relationship. The best thing to do is to keep the issue private and deal with it yourself.
4) Try to take care of yourself physically by not letting the whole issue weigh you down. Eat good food, do exercise and drink plenty of water and most importantly have fun.
5) Avoid the blame game: blaming yourself your partner or whosoever is involved will not repair the damage that have been caused blaming each other will only bring more issue and cause more problems than solution.
6) Seek for counseling from a relationship expert or an experienced therapists doing this will make you speak out better process whatever feeling you are dealing with faster and help you make a good decision on the next step of action.