There is no specific place to visit.

It is best to be with friends and family.

Go out to have fun and meet new friends.

It is better to be as busy as possible, so that you do not have time to think about the person who broke your heart.

It is a kind of circle from which it is difficult to get out.

Start that you go out to find a Lover

You find it, you fall in love

They love so much each other.

They get bored with each other

They fight, and they separate.

Broken heart, repentance

Revenge, parties

And it is repeated again

Some people "love too much", sometimes at the end they reach such a point that they give everything, staying with a bitter feeling of emptiness.

At this moment, the secondary love enters the scene, the so-called mistress, because with the bitterness of the emptied sown, they have this "lover" taken to use it as an object of personal use, which is manipulated and handled freely. craving, without taking into account, thinking or feeling that this lover is also a person who, apart from satisfying the personal wishes of the user, has feelings and needs that are often undermined.

Over time the Lover becomes love and the game comes to reality and things are serious, The risk is that the other person becomes so important that you can not "live without him or her", or rather, that their absence (even if it is temporary) produces a lot of anguish and abandonment.

At first it happens that to disguise the distance while we are close, you call it several times a day, you make gifts (letters, candies, details) etc., do the same activities, share everything? or inability to detach?

This that seems normal in a first stage of falling in love, can become a problem in other moments of the relationship.

As controls often appear, excessive demands for attention, excessive jealousy, the circle of friends closes because "as they love each other they must" always be together ... Each time the link becomes more symbiotic and the least sign of autonomy it is experienced as a deep wound and / or as an act of lack of love, or they claim that you give a kicking treatment.

Eventually one of the two becomes the giver and the other the receiver; the couple becomes uneven. As a result, both lose the possibility of asking, of being surprised, of being different, of being oneself and being one with the other but really.

I refer to this "I would like or I would like to go to the cinema with you", "I want to call you" and not "it is obvious that we go to the cinema together", "it is routine that at that time we call ourselves by phone". Most of the time these orders are not verbalized but implicitly they are, which is why I mentioned before, if one of the two happens to go alone to the movies with friends, it is interpreted as something is wrong with the couple, resulting in the fights, confusions and other necessities.

In these relationships you lose this of being two individuals sharing the same course, you get confused, you merge and you act as if you were one.

When the couple only works in the sexual, it would be said! How rich is this ... but until then, after sex there is nothing else, and that is depressing ... everything else will have been disappearing little by little, it is like having dinner with the family, where no member of the family talks to each other, is unpleasant, right?

The relationship of that lover who became Love to later become routine, will arrive at the moment when there is no other choice but to separate, and return to the beginning of this story. A vicious circle that if we do not avoid it, will embrace us as the drug does with a delinquent.

Let's feed our relationships with small details, Let's feed that love with hope, We do not spread false expectations to those who accompany us, let's be sincere, honest and show that we want to give without expecting to receive, so as not to fall into the daily routine, let's try not to let the union, because when it happens, if it happens ... then we will know what we have lost.

This reminds me of a song I heard from arctic monkeys several years ago