I'm companions with an attractive person who is unendingly single. On the off chance that he at any point asked me what he's fouling up, I would disclose to him the majority of this:

Requiring steady approval. It is debilitating for other people.

Gloating about yourself. Give other individuals a chance.

Speaking basically about yourself, particularly if your accounts as a rule include you as the saint and every other person taking in an exercise. (Or on the other hand if every one of your accounts are about you being wronged!)