In as much as i know, i come from Africa and am a typical African man. Africans must come to the understanding of expanding their scope to humanitarian services.
Maybe you're not from Africa but this article will give you an insight of were the African man has to change.
Am not writing against my continent but am trying to let the African man create a value for his neighbors life.
The African man values the DEAD more than the LIVING.:- We spend more time and money to bury a person than we do to save his life. When the sick is in the hospital and an African man is informed. He'll only say sorry and wouldn't come for visitation. But when it calls for burial, he'll spend his last money to travel for the burial. This attitude can be found 75% in all African man.
Most African Men will rarely respect you while you are alive, but will want to pay their last respect to your casket. this is quit unfortunate.
A person will never receive love flowers in his entire life but they will get dumped on their graveyard during funeral. Is this not craziness. We really need to change.
The African man will spend the night at the neighbors funeral service. Don't doubt me, this is his first visit inside his house. The African man will be very busy with his business and will never have time to tell his neighbor about Christ. Or find time to preach about the goodnews, But when he dies, he takes him to church/mosque and sheds crocodile tears.
An African man will say how wonderful you were to him, but he won't show you were ever good to him while you were alive. I wonder were this character is coming from.
Fellow Africans, its time to show love for one another. Lets share what we have with one another. Let love lead among individuals.
Please, dear fellow, love me when am alive, Show me your kindness now that i need it, your presence at my funeral will never make up for your absence when i needed you most.
i hope to meet you in our next walk of life. I'll live to see you someday. smiles...
Sharing Love and being realistic is all i love to do. I remain your motivational speaker 
