haha Aunt Jane was very often red in the face pissed off and yelling about something. My father stopped speaking to her at some point, and for years. He wasn't the most placid person either, so they regularly got into really bad fights about small stuff. Her second husband was exceptionally annoying. Even my mother couldn't stand him. But she was generous and loyal, for her whole life. Just difficult because she was so volatile. We all walked on eggshells around both her and my father.