It helps me to write about him. No one talks about him! It's very difficult for me that no one talks about him. I suppose they do that to protect me, but it has the opposite effect. Of course, I do cry when he comes up, so maybe they are protecting themselves. Anyhoo, on my way to Nashville, where I will spend Xmas with both of my daughters. In Louisville now, about to leave a lovely airbnb. Thank you, my dear friend, for being you.