Couples With a Difference
He is a musician and a producer all together. One good stuff I love about his music is that he plays and produce quality music that has made him popular at home and even in the other state where he is currently working.
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My friend has made influence through music and has gotten opportunities to go and play for wedding ceremonies and Birthday celebrations. While he was at home we normally go to play music in occasions and get payed afterwards, so while he was in Jos (Plateau State Nigeria) he got several opportunities to attend weddings and he was just telling about the event that took place in one of the weddings he attended. The groom happened to be his friend and something astonishing happened during the wedding.
There's a special seat for the bride and groom to seat in the church and in their reception ground. His friend and his wife where seating on the special seat and all of a sudden started corelling in front of the congregation. You're suprised too right?
I became puzzled, I mean, how can the bride and groom be yelling at each other during their wedding? What will then happen when they finally get to their home? I laughed out loud when he said the pastor in charge ask if they needed more time to understand themselves before they should be wedded, the both couples refused that their wedding should go on and they've understood themselves very well.
Like what the heck? People that understand themselves very well are yelling at each other during their wedding ceremony! That was hilarious actually. I think they will make a perfect wrestling home, what I mean is that, since they understand themselves even with the yelling stuff and all that, you as an outsider dear not intrude over their affairs because your story will never remain the same. Imagine having Jonh Cena kind of husband and Alexa Bliss kind of wife in the same house as husband and wife, you know what I mean...
The story of his friends wedding ceremony made me remember an event similar to that. Stay with me as I share with us this event.
I believe before two individuals come together and agree to stay with each other forever in marriage should have at least stay with each other and understand each others character a bit to see if they can cope up with each other or not. I take it as a big risk to pick a someone without knowing fully well how she behaves and how her character is before making her your wife and vice versa. You can end up picking someone that will continue to feed you with grandnuts for breakfast, watermelon for lunch, bread and cold water for dinner lols. I mean to say knowing who you want to spend the rest of your life with is very important, it is not all about jumping into marriage because in no time you will find a way to jump out of the marriage and maybe you'll find none. (Here goes the bachelor giving marriage advice to people here again馃槂) that's by the way:)
There is this guy from my church who got engaged to a beautiful damsel that we don't know how their relationship even started. It was just in a twinkle of an eye they met and boom he proposed and she said yes. Two months later after the wedding date is fixed, his wife to be picked up his Bank Card and withdrew almost half of the money he saved for their wedding to buy new make up kits. This is a big one from her because I think she will use his two months salary to buy weavons and attachment when she finally gets to his home or probably she will make use of his one year investment to buy two gowns and a boxers for him so it won't look like she only loves herself you know. The guy is currently in doubt wether to continue the marriage or to hold on.
If I will advice the dude, I will tell him to continue with the marriage right and make sure she is the person to always keep his bank cards for him as the helper she is. For more relationship tips, please contact me @ discord- ovey and be rest assured you're in safe hands馃槂