Hello Hivians
Anger is something anyone will always wish or want to avoid but the more you try to avoid it, the more tempted you find yourself because you will always see someone that will provoke you which will trigger your mood. Like we all know that anger is a state of displeasure in which you might be tempted to harm the people next to you. It is very important we learn how to control our anger in order not to regret your actions later when you're finally calm.
This reminds me of what happened years back, although I was still young but I noticed I provoked my mom and I have never seen her like that before. Few years back, I was told to cook food but because I was watching a movie, I didn't listen to my mom, I decided to turn deaf ears. When she came out few hours later thinking that the white rice would have been ready since there was Stew available, she met me watching TV, when she requested for the food, I quickly ran to the kitchen to prepare it and that was how I received slap from behind. I was very angry, although it was my fault that I didn't carryout the work that was given to me. To cut the Story short, I burnt the food because I was in my room, it was more like I did that on purpose because I was very angry, this made my mom to beat me and later gave me a punishment to finish the food. I thought she was actually joking when she said I should finish the food, but she wasn't.
I ate the food for three days because the rice was much. The short story is to tell you all that being angry is not good, it will actually make you do things that you will end up regretting but if we can control the anger and use it to do something good, we'll end up being happy. If I was able to control my anger, the rice would have come out well and everyone would have been able to eat without staying hungry and I wouldn't have served that punishment.
There are still many things we do out of anger just like those in relationships, when they see that their partner has offended them, out of anger, some might even hit their partner or do something very hasty that might even ruin their relationship. Acting out of anger is never a way to solve things but if only we can control it and us it to do something good, the relationship will be something everyone will love to copy from.
Ever since I noticed that whenever I'm angry, I might end up doing something I will regret, I try my best to always control myself. The only way I can do that is just to leave the place or better still, I will try not to quarrel with anyone in order to let peace reign. And since I have been doing that, it has been of help to me.
Let's learn how to control our anger by all means and Chanel it into something positive so that when we look back, we'll be happy we did that and not regretting what we have done.
