Loves reading your post! So wonderful of you to share.
I relate to so much of what you talked about, and my wife and I have both been on that similar journey. I am happy to say that for our son who is 18mo,we have managed to prevent any "metallic objects" entering his body..

Keep on what you are doing, it sounds inspirational and above all, healthy.

Also, if you have any questions or want to talk about plant medicines of the Consciousness shifting kind, feel free to message me. I have experience with first time psychonauts and holding space for fellow travellers.