My relationship with family (in depth)

I've always been labeled the black sheep. If not useful for being utilized considered useless to my bloodline. I stopped recieving birthday celebrations at the age of 5. An adult since then put in situations where i had to make sound judgements to better suit us as family i wasn't ever given much of a childhood. All that suddenly stopped around that age. I have children of my own now and i refuse to subject them to that type of behavior. I don't whoop my kids i speak to them we all make mistakes and can always use more improvement. My sword is sharper than any blade there's a great amount of force from my words and if they cry i'll cry with them when they smile it's the same way. I feel that not only can they learn from me but i to can learn from them.