The feeling of hate is actually a normal feeling for us to feel. If we can feel love, then we can also feel hatred. hatred is not a very bad thing as long as we can control the feeling and try not to get stuck with hatred. that is, the feeling of hate is not to make us commit acts that harm ourselves and others, and also not to stay constantly in our hearts.
hatred usually occurs when other people do something we do not like, or do bad things to us, or when others make us feel very disappointed. Hate can also arise from excessive love. if we are too loving someone, but then the person makes us hurt, there is a possibility that love is turned into hate. That is why there is wise counsel that states, "do not love someone excessively, because the distance between love and hate is thin". however, we should not let ourselves be overwhelmed with hatred.
None of the advantages we get from hate, on the contrary hate it harms us. For the three things we get from hatred:
1 Hates energy drain
every negative feeling must drain energy or make us tired of feeling, as well as with hatred. When we hate someone, it can make us upset and angry. In fact, sometimes hate can make us angry for no apparent reason, tiring.
2 Hates to be a live load
When we hate someone, a little more it can cause a sense of unhappiness (even depressed) in our hearts. And that sense will disappear when we release that hatred.
3 Hate to disturb the peace of life
when we hate someone, automatically our mind will be more busy thinking about the person we hate it. Realized or not, hatred has made our lives so can not really be peaceful. Hating others makes us feel like we have enemies in our lives.
a beautiful life is a peaceful life without any hate. Rather than wasting our time hating it would be much better if we could disguise our hatred and love affection.
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