THE WORST PLACE AFTER HELL IS A BAD MARRIAGE. JUST, WATCH, THINK ,PLAN AND PRAY BEFORE GOING INTO THE UNION*
WATCH.
If you rush into marriage, you may end up with someone who will bury your destiny ,thats why you need to watch.
A successful marriage is always like a triangle :
There's God, a man and a woman.
Every other persons are just additional because in an ideal marriage the husband and wife comes first before other family members.
THINK
Why you marry is as important as who you are getting married to because in the real sense two people cannot work together except they agree.
About 80% of your life happiness depends on how successful your marriage becomes because your whole every day life choices and decisions depends on your marital choice,unless you have chosen a part of never getting married.
Marriage is a huge deal that requires lots of thinking and responsibilities, so you should always try as much as possible to be on a good course when making that one decision of getting married.
Always think about why you want to get married and things you are willing to sacrifice just to make it work.
PLAN
Do not place your priority on good looks; no woman is ugly, she just needs rebranding.
Money is good but it should never be your first criteria if you want to get married,
First step is to love yourself and accept who you are.
Secondly ,check out the characteristics of the type of woman or man that you fancy and thirdly create time to go out on dates ,if you are ever too busy meet people check out dating sites or social medias and pick reasonable places were you can meet whoever you want ,
In as much as you are planing on getting married always make sure you are comfortable intellectually , financially, mentally and emotionally..
Do not rush any plans in other to limit the mistakes you will get to make while in marriage because theres no way you won't make few mistakes but your ability to know this and how to learn from them matters alot and it will help you build the relationship to some extent without forcing blames
PRAY
In as much as not everyone gets to pray, but to some extent almost everyone meditate in their mind to wish positive results upon their buisness or marriage and so many other things, in a way it always feels like wishes come through when you finally get positive result from what you wish could take place ..thats just prayer too , depends on your beliefs,
Christians or Muslims pray to God and other religious ethnics also pray to their Gods.
This really goes a long way to help especially in marriages too.
A man needs divine wisdom from God in choosing who to marry.
Thats just the simple truth either you believe it or not it works well when you seek spiritual supports just like your invisible wishes when hoping for better outcome of things .
Do well to know your God and pray.
So i would like you to know that
The best way to enslave a man or woman is to shower them love excessively
No sane man or women will run away from where they're being pampered and cared for no matter how huge or little.
Love is not blind;
infatuation, greed and lust are the things that makes people blind while choosing who to marry.
So you better know,
marriage is a covenant, and we all should always look before we leap into that union.
It is better to be single and believing God to be married than to be in a bad marriage and believing in God to be single again.
A broken courtship is always better than a broken marriage because it can effect in so many ways ,
Do not marry money or property, marry a person,
And this can only be possible if you are sincere in your mind about not being greedy and lazy that you can be contended with what ever life throws at you ..
That makes you mature and ready because even if your husband or wife is rich it is just a plus for you and even if things turns out badt you wont feel the effect much..
*Desperation leads to frustration which brings about
Bad marriages which can be avoided even before they begin.
Just know that ,
*Love puts God first,
lust puts sex first
Test every love with your peace of mind, if you cant have peace in your relationship just know someone lacks the presence of prayer and God is not there.
If you are a true friend, you will attract true friends.
Caring hearts never lack caring hands.
It is spiritual insanity to plan to convert or change someone so that you can marry the person ,if someone is not willing to change ,you might end up living with a fake product as a life partner and we all know that fake products only last for a while
