So this life is actually deep and people really have lots of sad tales to tell especially when most of the life circumstances happens and they have no control over it.
This 26 year old lady has dated for 5years ,
She was working and she met the guy during one of her office vacations too ,
They both got together and in 2months they started dating ,
Well some how he was soo in love with her or so he claimed not until the unexpected Happened to her..
She had an accident on her way to to a buisness meeting which led to the removal of one of her hands from just above the elbow.
This was really hard because she was really lucky to be alive, she escape with her life ..
This very accident actually killed everyone in that vehicle and it was just God that kept her alive to even be able to visit the hospital..
The sad part about it all was that the guy has already engage to marry her when this thing happend and at first he has always been nice and good to her.
But after the accident, he had to postpone lots of things especially the wedding and so many other buisness things that were related to her and this was because it will take a very long time for her to recovery fully over time and since she had other scars it will be necessary to wait till she heals fully and completely especially on her legs that was making her not to walk too well at first.
Since one of her arm was cut ,she needed help in doing some things Especially getting dressed or bathing ,and the fiance (now ex fiance), was there to help her ..even though her family were also coming to assist her too..
It took 2years for her to heal completely to some extent but then her issues started.
After she recovered, she noticed that the fiance was behaving strange,
Gets angry easily,
Complains alot,
He qurells over little issues and then he started acting out like he was trying to pity and manage her,
They already shifted the date of their marriage so she was trying to still know if he is interested since he already changed attitude towards her because of a situation that happened that is not even her fault.
His attitude towards her made it feel like she should be grateful hes tryin to manage her.
So one time she decide to confront him and dragged him to open up about how he feels, this is after 2years and 4 months, after the accident in their relationship .
She confronted him.
told him how she feels he's being with her out of pity and if its because she is now with disability he should open up and tell her so they can look for how to sort things out to avoid all the fights and qurells over Little issues.
She told him he should not be with her out of pity.
So he should try to help her understand what she can do ,so they can settle everything.
He just told her that hes sorry for acting out but the truth is ,
he's not attracted to her anymore.
Like she was not shocked but she never expected him to say that because she still looks pretty only that one of her hands were no more
It really hurt her because he has been helpful all this years even while they argued and quarell he still get to help her in his own ways,
her only issues were how to end the self pity attitude he was giving her..
They have been in a relationship for 5 years before he proposed.
And it was unfortunate she had accident during that year he proposed..
Like if not for the accident they would have been married for 2years and some months already.
That is how he served her breakfast and broke up with her.
Now its 1year later and he moved on ,
then she saw his wedding pictures online last month November,
he met someone else and they are now married..
She feels hurt because he was soo nice to her and really took care of her during those times at the hospital..
She realised that she still love him genuinely and its just soo painful to see the picture of him getting married to another after all these years ..
She never wanted to tell anybody because she didnt want people to pity her that he broke up with her.
Alot of her friends never knew they were no longer dating so they were sending her his wedding pictures to ask what happened.
Now she was asking for advice on how to move on finally and get over him too.