In order for a healthy communication environment to take place, a dialogue environment must also be established. For this situation, which may be called reciprocity principle, firstly; it is necessary to decide what are the subjects to communicate, a communication topic and how to transmit these messages to the interested parties.
When we want to define communication, our antagonism is expressed as follows: The emotions, thoughts, information and news among the people are transmitted to each other personally in every form and way that can come to mind and people understand each other; transfer of feelings, thoughts or information to others in any way that may come to mind, communication, communication, or communication. In order to create a communication environment in such a place as can be understood from this definition, it is necessary to have living creatures to communicate firstly in that environment.
Communication has different methods. At the beginning of these, there is a method of verbal communication based on mutual dialogue, in which the people understand each other, tell, negotiate, and teach each other and learn from each other. We can add non-verbal communication that body language and mimics use, a written communication that a subject or person creates to express themselves, and visual communication methods that are created to reach more than one person at the same time.
How should good, quality and effective communication be? In order to find the answer to this question, we need to find the answer to this question: What is bad and ineffective communication?
The most common problems in bilateral relations are due to lack of communication. As a matter of fact, many of the problems are caused by people who do not know what good and quality communication should be. Do not listen to each other, cut the word, cut off, do not listen, do not understand if you do not know, comments made without knowing the other person ...
Anyone who has something to tell is an ear to listen to. Effective communication does not only mean that the art of speech is high, or that knowledge is superior to knowledge. An effective listening is also a must for communication. Listening skills can be passive as well as effective. And it can even be a frustrating listening style that supports the other side of communication. As Celaleddin-i Rûmî said, "Man is fed from the remote."
Communication language has different ways as well as different methods of communication. Today, the relationship between parental relations and parental relations; the language of communication which is important in many respects from education to the people, the language is divided into you and me, and making or sabotaging the associations.
It is actually very easy to determine which language you are using when communicating. If you have a pointing finger accompanied by your conversations while in a mutual dialogue with someone, and this finger always points to the opposite side, you should know that the language you are using is the language. You are an accusatory, affectionate, dominating, self-deprecating language, a language of disgust for the other side of communication, a negative emotional zone that makes you feel awkward, unsuccessful and guilty.
"You've never worked at all, you were going to be weak." "I'm late because you have not told me before." "Always forget about what I've always said, and forget it today."
If you pay attention to the above caveats, they are all accusatory, bearer and counter-party passive. All of these negative emotions cause the communication to end before it begins.
I am the language of another language of communication. You can understand that you are using your language and you are showing yourself when you are communicating. This tongue is a positive emotional range that allows the user to see the wrongs, often by the opposite party, by seeing the wrongs, feelings that they feel, or behaviors they should not, by softening them over themselves.
If you do not want the sentences for your language, let me create it again in your language.
"I wondered if you were late, I wish you had the news", "I really appreciate what I want to do next time I forget it", "I want you to know that I'm sorry for taking it weak", "I know you will be a successful child, I'm a little embarrassed about my friends. "
As you can see, the sentence patterns have only gained a different understanding of how to make small changes. It is like a magic wand that closes or unblocks communication channels. If you say "you", it closes, "I" opens. No matter how many correct sentences are formed in the dialogues established by bad and ineffective communication, you can not escape the misunderstandings that will arise for the other side of communication. However, every sentence that is said in good quality and effective communication will be understood correctly and the dialogue will be established correctly.
