Hey dearest Mr/Mrs Irreplaceable, listen to this;
Stop feeling too important to someone who wants you. If they make a lot of sacrifices to keep you, don't take it for granted. Don't feel they are doing it because they can't replace you. No one on this earth is irreplaceable! If you keep frustrating their efforts to be happy with you, one day you'll be shocked to discover that you have lost all relevance before them.
I once had a boyfriend who thought he was irreplaceable in my life. He felt I was not his class and he was doing me a favour to have him. I sacrificed so much to put up with his attitude and save the relationship. But after a while, I realized I deserved better, so I dumped his silly ass and moved on. At first, he could not believe I would ever think about leaving him. But when it dawned on him I was gone for good, he started begging and till date, he is still begging. Anyways, I don't have feelings for him anymore and I don't think I'll ever have one for him again.
If you find a good spouse, business partner, friend, work place or position, do not take for granted anything being offered to you or sacrifice for your sake. Stop feeling too important to people who want you close to them. Stop making being with you a difficult task for other people because someday, they will get tired of whatever sacrifice they are making to keep you and they will let go. But guess what? When that happens, you might be the one with the biggest regrets.
People may be tolerating you now, but do not think it will last forever. One day, they will realize they deserve better and they will Replace You.
Save your job, save your marriage, save your friendship, save you position, save your relationship with humility, meekness and show of appreciation.
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