Don't allow another person do your thinking for you.

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Be the boss of your mind; is that too difficult a thing to do?

Confident people don't wait for other people's judgement before they approve or reject a thing. They don't feel too big not to get other people's opinion, but they don't base their judgements primarily on what other people think or say.

Some people divorce their partner or sack a staff only because someone else asked them to so. A few years ago, a popular Indian actress rejected the marriage proposal from her lover, simply because her mother wants her to marry a rich man. She actually married a wealthy businessman, but she was not happy in the marriage and later on got a divorced. Today, she is still a single unhappy woman. All because she chose to listen to her mom and not to follow her heart.

Currently, the world is witnessing a cryptocurrency bubbles and everyone has turned a crypto adviser. People are losing money every minute by following the instructions from some weird YouTube channels and self-acclaimed crypto gurus. In as much as there are people who have in-depth knowledge of a thing more than you do, always do your own research and do not accept everything hook line and sinker.

Am I against you sourcing information or the opinion of other people? No, but you don't have to treat anyone like they have absolute knowledge. Accept their opinion, then carefully do your own analysis before passing out judgements.

No one took a part of your, then gave it to someone else. So why should you totally depend on others to do your thinking for you? Besides, you cannot see their minds, you don't even know what's the real thing going on there. They only told you what they want you to know. Isn't that a good reason why you should be in charge of your thoughts?

Be humble and tolerant, but at the same time, Be confident and be smart. Be the boss of your mind.

Quotes for the day.

No one has an absolute knowledge. There is always something to learn from other people no matter how professional or unprofessional the person is, learn to eat the meat and throw the bone.