The people who come into your life are either a blessing or a lesson.

Hello, everyone.

I welcome you to my blog. The world is changing daily, and every day we get to learn new lessons. The people we deal with and have things to do with are either going to be a lesson or a blessing, and every day we get to meet new people and cross paths with new people, and they too come into our lives, and they either end up being a blessing or a lesson or even something we regret ever letting happen or are glad we actually let happen. We have to accept that not everyone who walks into our life will be a blessing; we must accept that some are lessons, and those lessons are meant to be learnt so we know and learn how to deal with people ss we continue our life journey.

There are some people who came into our lives, and we ended up trusting them and hoping we could build something really beautiful together, but they had other intentions, and in the end they left you with a lesson. Many people who have trust issues today were once people who trusted others easily, but doing so has caused them to swallow more bitter pills than they can count when the trust they give out is taken for granted or not reciprocated, and today they put people through a series of tests, and they have to pass all the tests before they can trust them.

There are some people that walked into our lives that left us wishing we stayed home picking beans instead of being at the place where our paths crossed. There are some people who come into your life and don't just leave you with lessons but with scars and wounds you might never heal from, but we need to learn not to focus on just the wounds but to pick the lessons and move on. Many people make the mistake of punishing other people or locking people out because of the hurt or scar another person caused them, which is not meant to be so.

Just because another person hurts you or scars you does not mean you should lock people out or avoid meeting new people. If you do that, you are only putting yourself at a disadvantage as well as limiting yourself. You need people to grow; you need people to give you that push towards your dream; you need people to share with you the update that will turn things around for you, so locking people out because another hurt you will only affect you more while the one that hurts you continues to grow and do better, so all you need to do is take the lesson and move on as well as appreciate those who are a blessing.

_{All inages used are mine.}