Say NO

People adore giving advices.
You ask for advice? You'll get the advice.
You don't ask for advice? You'll get the advice.
Why?
You do things on your own.Without asking any questions.Just doing your thing.
But still, people consider themselves more clever than you and they wonder -
Why wouldn't you want their 'special' advice? Well, simple answer is just NO.
But..they are so generous and they give you tons of advices. And you should be thankful. No.
You're smart enough to do things as you like.
Without advices.Without permission.
Don't let yourself be ruled by the others.
You're more than that!
You have your 'trust circle'- people whom you trust and with whom you are close enough to help and support each other.
But why people who don't know anything about you give themselves right to discuss and comment you? Isn't it rude?
If all people started watching their bedrooms instead of bedrooms of the others, world would be much better place.
Who cares if your neighbour have married 4 times?
Who cares if that person on the street has yellow and red hair?
Who cares if those two guys are kissing?
Who cares if woman from 8th street has 49 cats in her flat?
Is that your issue? No.
People won't discuss how the world is full of violence and they won't talk about system in which the most important thing is to produce for larger companies.
People won't discuss how terrible things are happening under God's name, whatever your God name is.
People won't discuss how the environment is going to be lost if we continue with polutions.
People don't care about the Earth which is the Mother and Home for all of us and we are disturbing her all the time. You think she won't react?
People don't care about that last white rhino who died couple days ago.
If we don't react, other species will get lost too.
For the most important things, people choose to close their eyes, but for the things that are not important for them, they care. Crazy right?
Every change starts within you.
It's okay to say no.
I don't want to talk about that.
I don't feel like going out.
I don't want to disturb him just because you are too lazy to make yourself pancakes.
It's okay to say that you don't care what other people think.
But, it's not okay to comfort the others.
To say you like something when you don't.
It's not ok to not fight for your beliefs and your rights.
It's not ok to keep your eyes closed.
It's not ok to be silent.