I used to be a living example of almost all you listed in the write up.
Sometimes ago, when I'm mad at someone I always want everyone not to also talk to that person and keep distance from the person just like I did.

I later got to discover that all those things were wrong.
And ever since I changed, my life took a new turn and also, reading your post rekindled the almost forgotten lessons I learnt then.

It's really a pleasure to go through your post pal. thanks!