Most times i tend to get amazed at the way i was specially built, while some times, i tend to feel like my attributes and features are leading in the wrong direction. Nonetheess, i appreciate my creator for doing a fabulous work - creating me. Though as imperfect as i may seem, anytime i face a down time, i tend to bask my self in motivation, highlighting key achivements and the need to achieve more.
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From my perspective, he who has no codes, no principples or boundaries, not only for other people, but for also his or her self, has not tasted the rough and stormy aspect of life.
A little bit out of context, we live in a world people suck, people are ruthless and they tend to take advantage of the kind hearted, reaping them of their life force, finances and every other valuables, until nothing is remaining. Thus, the importance of living by a code so as not to allow those people get to you nor influence you into being like them.
There are several codes i like to live by, some of these codes are hated by other people, people tend to try to take advantage of some of them, which don't work out for them, and people do call me - too strict because of some, but will i change them? hell no. They can all boil mountains and fry stones.
The first code is to be kind and show care to every body wether or not i know them, no matter their gender. I can start being kind to a stranger, to the extent they will begin to think negatively. It happens a lot, mostly with females. Most of my female friends do catch feelings for me because of this. Some muster up the courage to tell me about it and ask for a relationship.
Another code I live by is resect and loyalty. I'm loyal and i respect even my juniors. Though as a child, i was really stubborn and all, but when i grew older, i got the qualities of being respectful. Though i respect everyone and i love showing kindness to all, i never let nobody sit on my nose and balance. nahh, fire always burns.
Thirdly, I love seeing people win. Yes, it is said that the only person that wants you to surpass him is your dad, but for me and my little circle, i want them to surpass me if possible. I feel great joy when my whole squad is winning. I always motivate them, punish them when neccessary, give them challenges so they compete, give them deadlines to do a particular thing, also, giving them rewards when they do well. I want it to be that, when i pull up in a benz, or a Range, the people in my cycle will also pull up in the car of their choice. I carry everybody alone, no soldier is to be left behind.
I hate disloyal people, people who play smart, thinking they are wise and wanting to reap everybody. I hate those liars, people who hide in other people's shadows, people who aren't men enough to own up to their words.
Lastly, i don't spend carelessly. I guess this is the major reason why i am still as single as a broom stick. haha. But lets face reality, i am still a hard working young man, at this stage, i need to stack up even though i know that i ought to share, i need to spend on assets, instead of liabilities or a wig, clothes and make up for a woman.
