Disappointments come and it goes, but one thing is certain, survival is for sure. We are all humans, imperfections is in our DNA but for some, it seems like disappointing people is what they do for a living and they don't even feeling remorseful about it.
We live in a world where having high expectations for somebody is equivalent to trying to give yourself a heart attack because they will always disappoint.
So, after a long time of being sterile, I decided to date again with hopes that I will meet the perfect person who I will be able to accommodate.
The long search was over as I met this beautiful lady. Our talking stage lasted for quite some months, so, I decided to ask her on a date. Gradually, we clicked and we started dating. You may think that we lived happily ever after yeah? Naah. We didn't.
The next day after we started dating, she started complaining of how things are not going well in her life. She used every single second to talk about how she needs money for one thing or the other.
Three days after we started dating, she told me to send her money for dinner which I did. When she got the alert , she came to my DMs and was shouting that the money was too small and not enough. Not even a thank you came out of her mouth. She even requested to send the money back to me.
The first red flag was when she started complaining of her financial situations. The second was when she asked me to send her money for dinner. And the last was her ingratitude.
I was really disappointed and pissed at her, so, I left without saying a word.
That experience was a really bad one, and honestly, I will never want to witness it ever again.
@cleanplanet