@ntul001 and I will like to say a few things about the strength of self-love.
Well, when we talk about self-love, people run into conclusion that they truly love themselves, but if you want to check critically, they don't really love themselves. Now, for instance, talking about love, if you love somebody of the opposite sex, you always want to see that person happy, you always want to see that person do what is right, you always want to see that person at the top. You can go out of your way, you can go to any level and extent, you can even give yourself sleepless nights, you can even go as far as borrowing just to make that person comfortable.
Wait a minute, take a look at yourself, can you do that for yourself? Procrastination has become the order of the day, you no longer take your things serious, after all, you are not doing it to impress anybody, so it doesn't matter if at all it works or not. You keep going, at times we defend it by saying what is meant for us will always be for us, but you are trying to put somebody's life in order, if that person's life is in order, the person will move forward and you remain where you are. Self-love is not selfishness, self-love is adding value to yourself, self-love is taking yourself to a new dimension, self-love has to do with your personal improvement, how you care about your well-being, it involves your health, self-love is self-care, how much do you care for yourself, how much do you care about your diet, how much do you care about your exercise, how much do you care about your studies, how much do you care about your spirituality, your psychology, your emotions, these are all attributes of self-love. So self-love is setting boundaries, to know the don't and the does of yourself, self-love is a practice of gratitude, being happy for your achievement, being happy not because you are validated by people, but being happy because you have attained a level, self-love is congratulating yourself for the level and height you have gone, accepting who you are, that is self-love, self-love is rejecting to think about the past and concentrate on the present and the future, self-love means spending time alone, you have to take yourself to a corner and do some reflection, some reviews about yourself, that is self-love.
Well, self-love is to practice mindfulness, be mindful of yourself, what you eat, where you go, what you drink, in fact, you are the product of what you hear and see often. If you love yourself and you want to stay faithful in your spirituality, then avoid pages on social media, avoid sites that will make you derail. Self-love is embracing your flaws, those things, those negativities of you, accepting them and taking a turn, that is self-love. Self-love is a choice, you can choose to love yourself the way you allow yourself, that is the way people will treat you, the way you present yourself, that is the way people will take you for who you are. Self-love, if practiced well, you will see that you will be regarded more than the way you were regarded before, people will no longer talk down on you. Self-love is setting priority for yourself.
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cheers...
