In a world were nobody really cares, I'm a world were your discussion and complains to people becomes the next headlines, in a world were everyone judges you without hearing your full story, people tend to pocket their complains and golden their silence. People quietly do things and even when the thing tends to hurt them , they smile and hide the pains, maybe because of their past experiences or the ones they heard from people.
A lot of people go through a lot of things but they have carefully refused to share it with other. Before a problem shared was a problem half solved but now days a problem share is a headline 😂.
I remember a lady asking a question one day in church, she narrated how she went to her pastor and discussed what was bothering her, the pastor told her not to worry, and prayed with her. The lady said that after about two weeks that she started hearing people calling her to asked questions about the same thing that she discussed with her pastor, she said she was just so disappointed and regretted going to the pastor to discuss her problem. As if that was not enough, she added that the pastor kept using her problem to sight an example everytime that he was preaching. She said that made her uncomfortable and she left the church.
Now , other people might also be having similar experiences , maybe not in church but somewhere else or even in their offices. To be honest, people like this will no longer trust anybody to share their story with , they will quietly endure what ever happens and keep the story to themselves. Because , at times no one will help you, but they will broadcast the story , judge you or mock without giving solution. So people smile even when they are hurt because of these.